08 Mar The Secrets to Allowing
The Secrets to Allowing
Let it be! Release questioning, anticipation, and expectation and slip into allowing. In a space of allowing we experience security, calm, and inner knowing. In my award winning, bestselling, book, SHINE ON! I share secrets on how to hone the skill of allowing that can guide you on the path to more joy, personal power, and greater self-esteem.
Be Like Shine!
Allowing is a conscious act of releasing expectations surrounding situations and relationships. It helps us grow after personal setbacks and creates space for positive comebacks. Practicing allowing is a way to raise confidence, reduce stress, and achieve greater personal success. Shine is brilliant at allowing. She rolls over, exposes her belly, stretches out, and falls asleep. This is the most vulnerable position for a dog. This act of vulnerability is easy because she feels safe with me.
Be Socially Allowing
When others voice opinion and we choose not to further comment this is an act of allowing. Social media is a great space to practice this. I moderate a number of social media groups. A member of one group sent me a private message concerning another member and their excessive online quizzes. She felt annoyed by what she perceived as nonsense. I acknowledged her feelings yet discussed that she could always scroll past quiz posts, political posts, or hide things that annoy her, and let it go. Recently many of us have blocked posts of others because we share different opinions. We can agree to disagree without commenting. We can also remain friends if we disagree.
Be In The Moment
Allowing is easy when we are in a place of knowing. When we think about our work, school, or sports we have a schedule. Knowing what to expect next gives us more security and willingness to take things one day at a time. Embrace routine as a feeling of certainty for goals, rather than something to stress over. Allow life to unfold, Shine On! and allow your light to glow.
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