08 Feb Three Secrets to Increase Love
Three Secrets to Increase Love
Happy Valentine’s Day to You! Love is in the air! While we are thinking of our sweeties and sweet treats, there might be someone we are forgetting.
True Love begins with self love!
Personal growth, success, empowerment, and the openness to truly share love with others starts with the ability to love ourselves. Here are some simple secrets to create positive connections, so we can Shine On! this Valentine’s day!
Boundaries are an important part of self-love, that allow us to build more loving relationships. It is much easier to love another when they are not constantly crossing personal boundaries, yet many of us choose not to express where our boundaries are, and what it means to cross them. Communicate your needs/ wants as well as your triggers with love, and those who love you will respect your needs/ wants.
- Open the Way
Too often we are so concerned with expressing our love to those we admire and care about, we forget that a big part of loving others is letting them love us in return! Let it in! When you are given the gift of love be thankful and express gratitude instead of ignoring the gift. Consider how you typically react to a compliment? Do you say thank you, or do you shy away and deny it? You deserve and are worthy of compliments and gifts of love.
- Random and Secret Love
A unique and unexpected way to receive self-love, is to give the gift of love in secret, or in a small random act of kindness. Pay for a stranger’s coffee, leave a gift of art or a trinket to discover, leave an anonymous quote of love on the bus. These little moments will spread joy, and the knowledge of this will offer you the feeling of love that will help you to continue to Shine On!
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